Stop Ignoring the Signs

A few weeks ago I went on a road trip with a friend to go see another friend. We were deep in the country so there were a lot of trees, back roads, and of course road signs. We were having a great conversation on past relationships and weren’t paying attention to where we were going. The funny thing is we were speaking on ignoring the signs (red flags) in our past while in the moment ignoring road sides to find out where we were going. lol. We eventually got there, but throughout our conversation I noticed how I ignore being used. People will tell me to my face that they’re trash and I would make excuses for them. Sometimes we make excuses for trash because we feel like we can mold it (fix it) into that is worthwhile.

 

Now there’s nothing wrong with someone having the potential (used lightly) to turn into something golden. The difference is if they’re working towards that or telling you honestly, ” I’m trash and I’m never going to change.”  Are you ignoring the things that you should be noticing?

We want to create something so bad whether it’s the perfect relationship or friendship. Meanwhile, God is telling us, NO, this is a one way street do not keep going…it, they, he, she -WILL destroy you. Yet, we keep going. I’m guilty as anyone with this. I’ve learned I’m a fixer and I love to mold someone into their true potential. But the difference is that someone has to want to be molded. We can avoid so much heartaches and headaches if we weren’t in such a rush to fix or create something that isn’t right for us. So, I challenge you to look what signs you’re currently avoiding and stop. You know yourself better than anyone else, so stop settling, there is better out there. You know your worth and if you don’t, I’m here to tell you that you are worth more than you think. Stop. Ignoring. The. Signs. TODAY.

 

  Happy Thanksgiving! Have a wonderful week! 

  -Kineatra